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Archive for February, 2012

The Process of Choosing Adoption as a Birth Mother

23 Feb

Heart to Heart Adoptions is a program that provides adoption services for birth mothers and prospective parents, too.  The program works hard to make sure the adoption process is smooth for you.  There is a general guideline that you will follow as a birth mother, which insures there are no bumps along the way.

Get in touch / Apply
To begin a relationship with Heart to Heart Adoptions, you need to first get in touch with them and send in an application.  Heart to Heart Adoptions offers a great interactive website to get to know the program better, or you can give them a call and talk to somebody.  Once you decide that adoption is right for you, send in an application and start thinking about where you’ll want to live during this time.

Utilize services
Heart to Heart Adoptions, Utah offers two great housing programs.  You can move to Utah for the duration of your pregnancy, and live in a furnished apartment provided to you by the program.  During this time, you’ll have meetings with your case manager, counseling, and prenatal care.  Your case manager will visit and help you get acquainted with the area, as well as bring you food shopping to make sure you get all you need to get yourself settled.  The program also provides transportation to Utah in case you cannot provide your own.

You also have the option to stay in your home state and receive the services and support Heart to Heart Adoptions offers through an out of state coordinator.  Your coordinator works in the same way your case manager would in Utah.  They will call you to discuss your adoption plans and your needs throughout your pregnancy.

Heart to Heart Adoptions offers various forms of counseling, welcomes you to meet other members of their community for support, and provides prenatal care for you.

Choose a family
Heart to Heart Adoptions offers different kinds of adoption programs in hopes of suiting every person’s needs.  The available options are open adoption, closed adoption, and a semi-open adoption.  Though you do not need to be a part of choosing a family for your baby, should you decide to, you’ll be provided with family profiles to choose from.  You can select and meet a family that meets your standards.

Prepare and deliver
Throughout the course of your pregnancy, you will be visiting your doctor often.  The day of delivery, a member of Heart to Heart Adoptions will assist you in getting to the hospital and stick by your side the whole time.  According to Utah law, there must be a 24 hour waiting period after the baby is born before any documents are signed confirming an adoption.  This law varies by state, though, so depending on where you deliver you may have a different waiting period.

This waiting period gives you as the birth mother time to make sure adoption is the right decision for you.  You can take longer if needed, and if you have any doubts, make your case manager aware.  At this point it isn’t too late to change your mind.  Once the papers are signed, though, the decision is permanent and you cannot turn back.

Return home
After delivery, you will return home and continue your life as normal.  Heart to Heart’s post placement department will help you during this time as well to make sure you get home safe and get settled.

As a birth mother choosing adoption, pregnancy can be a trying time and it is important to receive the proper care and support.  Heart to Heart Adoptions makes sure to provide you with both those things, and much more.

 

Posted in Utah Adoption

 

The Adoption Process for the Adoptive Family

16 Feb

When looking to expand your family, you may choose that adopting a baby is the right decision for you.  At Heart to Heart Adoptions, they work hard to make the adoption process run as smoothly as possible.  The agency offers an interactive and informative website to start you on your way to bringing a child in to your home.  As well, there are counselors and people to assist you along the way beginning with step one.

Apply
You should read up on the adoption process and determine your eligibility.  If you decide that you are, you can sign up on the Heart to Heart’s website to get access to all the information you may need.  You can download or send in an application from their website, as well.  Once you submit it, you just wait for a call and continue to do research.

Home Study / Orientation
Once your application is received, a case manager will call you to set up a Home Study and Orientation.  Again, the Home Study Packet can be found on the website to help prepare you.  The purpose of the Home Study is to ensure you meet requirements necessary for adoption.  You’ll have many interviews and be asked to submit a variety of information.  It may take several weeks to get through this part of the process.  During this time you can ask any questions you may have.

If you live in another state, you can choose another organization to perform the Home Study.  As long as the Home Study performed is within your states regulations and follows guidelines pointed out by Heart to Heart Adoptions, Utah, it will be accepted for consideration.

Get Accepted
After being approved for adoption, it may seem that there is a lot of waiting around.  At this point, the agency will work hard to set you up with the right birth mother.  Since there is not much for you to do at this time, it’s suggested you utilize the many services Heart to Heart Adoptions offers.  You can join a support group, attend educational classes, and prepare your family for a new member.  Keeping in contact with the agency is important during this time.

Get Matched
There are different factors that go in to consideration when trying to place you with a birth mother.  The mother may have an idea of what she wants including an ideal family budget or family situation that you do not meet.  The agency also considers any past adoption attempts, how long you’ve been active with Heart to Heart Adoptions, and your location.

Get Placed
Once you’ve been matched, you just have to wait for the baby to be born!  You can prepare your home at this time for the baby’s arrival.  According to Utah state regulations, there is a 24 hour waiting period after the birth of the baby before any legal papers can be signed.  Laws vary by state, though, and may be different in yours.  During this waiting period, the birth mother can change her mind and choose not to adopt out her child.  Once the papers are signed, everything is binding and all final payments are due.

Post Placement
After the baby is placed with you, you can return home and begin your life as a new family.  For six months, supervisory visits are required to check up on your new family.  After finalization, you can have the baby’s birth certificate changed and take care of all final costs.

Heart to Heart Adoptions makes every attempt to connect the right baby with the right family.  They offer many services to help you during the adoption process, and after as well.

 

Posted in Utah Adoption

 

How Adoption has Revolutionized Over the Centuries

09 Feb

The history of adoption is a long one that dates back hundreds of years.  In the beginning, however, the practice of adoption was not the same it is today.  The modern form of adoption, that has its roots in United States history, is seen as a form of creating a parent-child relationship where one may not exist.  In ancient time, however, children were often mistreated and taken in for slave labor or other purposes.

Dating back to the Roman Empire, royalty would take in orphans for cheap labor or to continue the line of their ruling family.  Often, if a son was not born in to the ruling family, they would take in an orphan as their own to raise.  This way, he could become the heir of the throne and their family would not lose their place in society.  Otherwise, children were taken in for labor purposes and put to work.  The Catholic Church became aware of this, though, and began placing abandoned children in to convents where they would be treated better.

The Middle Ages saw a rise in abandoned children.  Again, these orphans were used for work purposes or often ignored.  The church stepped in again and began setting up orphanages to take in these children.  They worked hard to find proper housing and care for them, and limit the amount of abandoned children on the streets.

Change came in the 19th century with the idea of “Orphan Asylums”.  This was a practice of placing children in the care of businessmen, where both the adopter and the adoptee could help each other out.  The businessman would teach the child their trade, giving the child a skill to fall back on, and the child would help the man by working for him.  The businessman would also provide care and shelter for the child.

Up until 1851, however, government was not involved in the adoption process.  The first adoption law was created in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts.  This law required that all adoptions be made legal in a court system, include consent from birth parents and adopting parents, and require adopting parents to be eligible and able to care for the child.  While this was an improvement upon earlier practices, laws were not enforced and were not clearly defined.  It was often found that homes children were being placed into were not properly caring for them.

During the American Civil War, many children were found abandoned in the streets and accommodations for them became overcrowded.  At this point the idea of “Orphan Trains” was thought up by Charles Brace.  This practice put abandoned children on to trains and moved them westward toward farmland.  While the idea was to provide homes for these children, it turned out that farmers were using them for labor and making them work for their housing.

Laws became stricter in 1917 with the passing of the Minnesota Adoption Law.  At this time, adoption records were more diligently kept and were made confidential.  This way, the public could not gain information about adoptive families.  This reduced some of the stigma put on birth mothers and made adoptive parents feel the children were more their own.

Throughout the 1900s, improving the practice of adoption became of national importance.  President Theodore Roosevelt set forth in removing any abuse from the system and providing loving homes for orphans.  From this point on, conditions in the adoption system improved and stricter laws were passed, making the practice of adoption what it is today.

At Heart to Heart Adoptions, Utah, they maintain the utmost confidence that all laws are followed and extra care is put in to each adoption.  They understand the importance of the practice, and realize that there should be no stigma involved.  The agency works to make sure birth mothers and adoptive parents are comfortable and supported throughout the process.  Heart to Heart Adoptions strives to find safe, loving homes for children throughout the country.

 

Posted in Utah Adoption